INTOLERANCE VS. SINCERITY AND PROFESSIONALISM
by Ralph Liebing, RA, CSI, CDT
Cincinnati, OH
When you joined CSI and/or SCIP, you just filled out a form and paid your dues. You were not asked to raise your hand and pledge allegiance to the group or to professionalism-- to the latter, it was a foregone conclusion. You were either professional or wanted to be! OK? Now in that scenario, there is absolutely no pecking order, precedent or hierarchywe are the same, professionally! And we are gifted by some degree of stigma of status[as spec expert] within our bailiwick!
One thing we cannot come by in any form at any cost is intolerance! We can grouse, grump, and mutter, but pure, nasty intolerance is nothing but frustrated professionalism!
Let me offer an example:
He came over, quietly, a raft of papers in hand; smiled and asked if I had minute. Whats going on?
Always try to be available, open, and helpful [I am really a very fine person!!!] I assured him that I had time for whatever he was about. The reply came, I talked to Ray and he helped me a little with these specifications [notice, the full word; too young to use specs!!!] but told me to ask you to guide me through the whole process.
What the h _ _ _ is going on? Someone asking, 1] about specs, 2] for help with specs, 3] in a sincere, I-want-to-learn attitude, and 4] and showing profound interest in doing them right. What, indeed, IS going on??
Now see, at this point, I am taken by the thought that I have made some progress; made inroads into the fertile minds of at least one [could there be more] young, budding architects in our office! Me-- for a moment, I am simply stunned.
I am so used to the Hey, Ralph, I need these specs to go out today, can you do them now-- 41 Sections, 4000 edits and glitches, a million bad concepts, and 16 misplaced items. Sure, dumb me, I get them done.
But now euphoria has set in-- someone is here, ahead of time, asking for guidance, and trying to do specs right. I may cry!
Now show me, in there, where any level of intolerance is needed or appropriate? There is none! Who am I to berate or electronically yell at someone who comes to me and asks for help; who seeks to be better; and desires to produce a better product? To do so is intolerable, the height of unprofessionalism and without any reason, founding or substantiation! Why would anyone choose to do this? What could their reason possibly be? What result were they trying to achieve? Beats me! But then I guess I’m just a professional wimp!
Folks, the discussion above-- most regrettable!
We are much better than this!