It’s all about relationships – or, as they used to say, “It isn’t what you know, it’s who you know.” Enough cold calls may turn up some prospects, but a relationship usually has to be built before a project is awarded.
A tape series James Franklin did for the AIA years ago called “The Mandeville Techniques” explains better than anything else I know how the process works, and why. It’s simple, but it may seem counter-intuitive, the opposite of what you’d expect. If you can find those tapes, they’re worth a listen.
In a nutshell, you ask what kind of help they need, what they’re trying to do, and you listen. And – you take notes. You repeat back what they say, asking them to correct you if it seems you haven’t understood them right (and so what they hear you say is exactly what they had in mind; this shows them you’re on the same page…). You listen for “mystery words” – things you aren’t sure you understand – and, with open-ended follow-up questions, you ask them to explain what they mean.
Just ask them questions; it’s an “other-directed” process – it’s all about them, and not about you. You try not to tell them much – especially about yourself or your firm. (That comes much later, after you understand their needs, desires, dislikes and prejudices, and when you are prepared to explain what your firm can do to help them attain the desired result, how it can do it – and also, perhaps, why what your firm can do – and how it can help – would be an advantage.) You build the relationship first by demonstrating, by the questions you ask, and your taking down notes, that you’re interested in them and their needs; they actually experience your interest in them and your attention to their needs and desires, and see firsthand your willingness to help. And eventually they realize that you may well know better than anyone else what they need and want. That experience, and that knowledge, tends to build trust, which, ultimately, leads to the job…
I too have been trying to find a way to bring in some business. Just yesterday I met with a recent acquaintance to help, on a pro-bono basis, with a grant application for repairs to his landmark church. While I was in that part of town, I dropped in to see another person I met through a mutual interest. He’s an engineer with (and longtime friend of) a land developer. I dropped off a firm brochure for him to pass on, if he hears of anyone who might need our help. (Since these are relationships I have formed over the past 3 or 4 years, and in other contexts, I haven’t tried to “Mandeville” them. That may not in fact be necessary, at least yet.) I don’t know where these might lead, or even whether they will. But they know who I am, and now, they know whom I work for. At least it’s a start.